Saturday, April 22, 2017

Book Review - The Picture of Dorian Gray, Oscar Wilde

The Picture of Dorian Gray, Oscar Wilde (Image Source - Google)
TEMPTATION!

From the moment the unfortunate Eve bit into the forbidden apple, to these current days, when we lesser-mortals are lured by the overpriced electronic 'Apples', Temptation has been shadowing us humans. A baneful prelude to our vices, very few amongst us can claim to have overcome temptation. While we are protected by various constraints that help us overcome our temptations - social stigma, fear of gods, fear of law and so on - once in a while even the most saintly amongst us 'blinks' and lets temptation cause mayhem.

The corrupt lot never lets any constraints stop them, while the Holiest few never let temptations taint them. It is the ordinary beings in the middle that suffer the most at the hands of Temptation. Pulled by the pleasures on one side, barred from it by principles and penal codes on the other, this middle lot bears the onslaught of temptation grudgingly. How often have we craved to indulge in the vices to which we are lead – sometimes by becoming invisible, some other times by transforming ourselves into someone or something else! We have all wanted to relish the baser pleasures of life, without letting their effects stain our souls. This book then is the expression of such a desire on the part of Oscar Wilde.

Yes. This is a book on temptation, manipulation and eventual corruption. Except that here the protagonist - or, is it the antagonist?! - is never tainted by his sins. The corruption of his soul is borne by his portrait instead of its carnal sheath.

Dorian Gray is a charming young boy knocking on the doors of adulthood. Lord Henry is a wealthy, hedonistic idler whose only purpose in life is to seek pleasure and pleasurable sensations. Basil Hallward is a simple, righteous persona and a talented painter that 'adores' Dorian. A chance meeting of all these three - on the fateful day Basil puts his heart and soul into painting Dorian – designs the rest of the tale. Lord Henry 'teaches' innocent Dorian to take pride in his own physical beauty, which is temporary and urges him to indulge in the pleasures suited to his age. Manipulated by Henry thus, Dorian becomes aware of the flush of youth in his veins, as truthfully depicted by Basil in the portrait, but is also dejected at the prospect of growing old and haggard someday. In one god-forsaken moment, he loudly wishes that he would even exchange his soul to stay as beautiful as he is and let that wonderful portrait feel the passage of Time.

Starting with the simple pleasures of life, Dorian once commits a serious injustice to the girl he falls in love with. Back at home, Dorian finds his portrait slightly changed to show signs of cruelty amidst all that boyish charm. Dorian realizes that his ‘wish’ has come true and all the sins of his soul will leave their stains on the portrait instead of his face or his youth. But just as he repents and tries to make amends for his grave error, Lord Henry, a mentor as vile as there could ever be, sets him again on the wicked ways. Tempted also by a book lent by Henry, and untouched by the effects of his ‘sins’, Dorian falls deep into the pits of life, all the while watching the portrait turn from ugly to ghastly with each ‘sin’ that he commits. Was Dorian able to mend his ways? Did he ever get to redeem his soul? This book is a tale that answers those questions.

Oscar Wilde wrote this novel – his only one – while English society was reeling at the height of Victorian morality. Being a homosexual himself, Wilde was condemned, ostracized and left to die in penurious exile. It is quite an irony then that a book which brought its author all the infamy must be one of the best-selling books of our ‘modern’ times.

Going through the book, I couldn’t help wondering whether Dorian Gray and Lord Henry were Wilde’s alter-egos. Remember, we writers have a knack of lending a part of our soul to the characters that we lovingly create. The sense of importance lent to the statements of Henry, the weakness with which the other characters contradict him and finally end up agreeing with him, the hold that this hedonistic idler wields on the whole tale are all evidence enough that Henry, more than even Gray, is the alter-ego of Oscar Wilde. Basil, the moral person that he is, sounds feebly like the other part of Wilde that regrets his ‘mistakes’.

Not just for the author, but for us the readers too, this book holds a mirror. While stating the moral decadence that Dorian falls into, Wilde does not elaborate on the kind of sins Dorian takes pleasure committing. In that sense this feels akin to Robert Louis Stevenson’s ‘The Strange Case of Dr.Jekyll and Mr.Hyde’. There also, the protagonist leads a double life, being a noble gentleman as Dr.Jekyll while lurking in the darkness as Mr.Hyde sating his gore hungers. But what kind of immoral activities that Mr.Hyde indulges in is never articulated, leaving it to our guess. Here also, Dorian’s one sin is to indulge in narcotics, but the rest of the decadences are left unsaid, like a blank canvas on which we can paint the nature of those sins. Both these books are similar in letting us decide on the level of moral corruption, thus bringing out the inner demons that we have all been hiding inside us too.

The literary fluency of Wilde, his ability to portray in words the England of the late 19th century - from flora to the banal - do all make it a pleasure to read this book. But, I couldn’t help noticing his egoistic English self, like most of the British of his days, which made him think of India as the land of snake-charmers – at least in the fleeting reference.

A psychological thriller that stemmed from the unreliable ‘art’ of physiognomy, this book is a forbidden apple that we must all bite into!

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Anyone Can Care!

Elders Crossing (Image Source - Google)
This morning, just as I got down at the bus stop and started walking towards my workplace, I saw an elderly person feebly kept signing for the oncoming traffic to slow down in order to cross the road. He was looking so fragile and too weak to cross on his own. Just as I was about to move ahead of him, I asked whether he needs any help in crossing the road and offered my hand. He politely declined saying that he could manage on his own, but caught my outstretched hand with a warm smile and uttered a genuine ‘thank you’.

Funny! I did nothing other than simply offering to help, but I got an affectionate smile and a word of genuine gratitude in turn.

Seems to me that all we humans want from one another is only that sense of care and the assurance that they are important, their presence and their well-being matter something to someone, somewhere. He taught me once again, as one of those innumerable teachers in my life have done time and again, that no matter how busy you are or how sad you are, you can always make someone smile, you can touch someone’s life in a pleasant, positive way! 💗

Saturday, April 15, 2017

Book Review - Fear and Trembling, Søren Kierkegaard

Fear and Trembling, Søren Kierkegaard (Image Source - Google)
Every reader worth his salt would do well to remember the statement of eminent philosopher Francis Bacon about how some books are to be tasted, some are to be swallowed and some others to be chewed and digested. Well, we do all read books that we can put into at least one of those three categories. We all read books to learn something, to be entertained or simply to kill time. We do all have our own favorite genres that satisfy these needs.

Philosophy is one genre which we all love to read, sooner or later, for that is where we find most of the ancient wisdom. But once in a while, you read something very bad that you end up thinking philosophy as wry, boring and rarefied mumbo-jumbo. This book does such a disservice to the cause of philosophy by its very existence.

Abraham, a man whose progeny ended up giving us three major world religions - Judaism, Christianity and Islam - was a favourite of God and, just as with any favorite of God, he had to undergo some serious tests of his faith and face some darkest nights of his soul. Once God asked Abraham to offer his son Isaac, a son whom he begot at the ripe old age of hundred, as a sacrifice to the Divine. The unflinching faith with which Abraham raised the knife to sacrifice Isaac remains one of the main examples of Faith in all three religions.

While Abraham is revered for having been a man of faith, the human element of that tremendous test has never been analysed much. Imagine reading a book which looks into the human aspect of Abraham's sacrifice, the pain of being asked to sacrifice the apple of his eye, the turmoil that could have whipped his mind over such a demand from God, and the confusion about God's promise of Isaac being the patriarch of hoards of humans. When Amazon recommended this book, I saw a book of great wisdom and learning in the offering. Alas, what a disappointment it turned out to be!

Søren Kierkegaard is touted as an eminent philosopher and theologian. A look at his upbringing and academic pursuits will tell you why. A man whom life tested by taking away all that he loved or could have loved, Søren felt like the right person to write on this topic. But all that eloquence and potential waxes into nothing.

While I was preparing myself for a feast of the clash between obeisance to the Divine and the passions of one’s own, Søren has doled out a pretty unpalatable dish. After beginning with an introduction about Abraham and what sets him apart from others that have faith in God, Søren wanders off to indulge in deep and abstruse rambling. Thrashing out the details of the ethical aspects of God’s demand and Abraham’s submission, the absoluteness of Abraham’s faith in God’s promises which contradict His demand and the propriety of not sharing the details of the demand with Sarah and Isaac himself – till about the last moment – are all topics that could have been the ideal ingredients for a ever-lasting classic, but all that Søren does it to offer a book that is sure to cause intellectual indigestion.

This is a book only for hardcode theologians and philosophers of an intense cast. For the rest of us mere mortals, there are much better offerings out there.

Thursday, April 6, 2017

Smile, Please! :-)

Smile! (Image Source - Pinterest)


The world these days, at least in our big cities, is growing more and more chaotic. Stress has become the buzzword. Road-rage and professional rat-race have become commonplace. Ego, hurt, anger, misunderstandings, cut-throat behavior, lack of compassion, absence of love and what not?!

Fortunately, there is a simple remedy. A very simple one that you might even laugh at me.

It is nothing other than 'smile'. Don't trust me? Try it yourself. The next time you interact with a stranger, begin with a smile. A smile is the most contagious thing. Even the most egoistic, grumpiest person cannot resist it. Smile is the weapon that disarms even the most arrogant person. It can dispel someone's unsaid gloom. At times, your smile is the only positive thing that could happen to someone for the whole day. 

So, share that beautiful smile of yours with someone today!  😊💓

Monday, April 3, 2017

Cherish Your Moments! 💞



The greatest things in Life can all be neither taught nor bought. Love, Compassion, Integrity, Emotions - look back at all those big moments in your life. Moments that made our eyes well up with tears of happiness. Moments that gave us profound peace. Moments that made our whole body bristle with emotions. Moments when our heart was filled with joy. Moments when we were vulnerable, soaked in emotions. Moments like seeing a newborn's arrival into this world. Moments when you kiss 'Good Bye' to someone on their last moment of life. Moments when our love gets requited. Moments we hug our parents. Moments when we share a hearty laughter with our loved ones. Moments when we are truly ourselves, without the need to shield or screen our real selves from the world. Cherish them all.
 
End of the day, those will be the only treasures that we all earn here and those will be the only legacy that we will all leave behind! 💞

Love & Poetry


Often, writing poems feels similar to falling in love. Nobody sits around constructing a poem word by word. It just happens in a flash, as a whole. Mere smell, a color, a fleeting glimpse of anything - from the blissful to the banal - can leave an imprint of a poem on the mind. You either have it in that moment or you don't. Just like falling in love - you can live with a person for an entire lifetime without ever feeling that intense love for them. Or, you just meet someone all too briefly but stay in love with them for the rest of your life! 💕


Time to Turn Inwards?

In science circles, there is a belief that we know more about the surface of the Moon than about the bottoms of our oceans. Spiritually speaking, isn't it the same with us humans too?! We know a lot about the corruptions of the politicians, sins of the film stars, troubles of the neighbors and much more. But how little do we know about our mind, body and soul!

Time to Turn Inwards (Image Source - Google) Do we understand our own mind and body? Are we capable of understanding whatever it is that ails them? Do we know the passions, desires and fears that move our body and mind? Have we known our soul? Have we realized our true selves and understood all that is there to understand about life? Have we learnt all our lessons? Are we aware of the purpose and pattern of our Creation?

The longest journey a person can embark upon is inwards, it is said. That 'inward journey' seems to be the only solution for all the chaotic conditions that rule our 'modern' lives these days. May we all begin our inner journeys and fare well on the same. Here's wishing you all on a successful inward journey - May we become awake. May we become aware. 

Love & Peace! 💗

Happy New Year 2024!

As the first Sun of 2024 went back home, I was busy preparing my new diary and journal, packing off the old ones to their crammed space insi...