Sunday, September 30, 2012

Excerpts from 'Messages From The Masters', by Brian L.Weiss

Every line of the book 'Messages From The Masters' by Brian L.Weiss is proving to be worthy of contemplation and inculcation. Sharing a portion of the book here.



"Since it is important to love and honor yourself, you should not remain in a destructive relationship, even if you feel that you love the other person. The connection with that person might not work because of your partner’s problems, lack of understanding, or exercise of free will, but it is important to remember that love is timeless. You will have many more chances to get it right.

See the other person clearly, and don’t put that person on a pedestal. Your parents, your teachers, your authority figures are just people like you. They have their own fears, doubts, anxieties, and imperfections. They also have their own agendas, and sometime you are a pawn in their games. See them as equals, as your brothers and sisters. Their judgements carry no extra weight. Consider their opinions. They may be wise. They may be right. But they may also be wrong."

Monday, September 24, 2012

An Excerpt from 'Messages From The Masters'

These are some wise lines from the book 'Messages From The Masters', by Brian L.Weiss -

"Projection is the psychological action of denying your fear and unconscious motivations and then giving these fears and motives to others. Be careful not to project your hidden feelings onto another or to ascribe motives and intent when there are none. This distortion of reality harms both you and the other."

Thursday, September 20, 2012

An Open Appeal To All Islamic Brothers

19th September ‘12

It was another morose and sweltering afternoon in Chennai. What made the sweating and the heat worse was that the bus wasn’t moving from its place for the last 25 minutes and with the driver turning off the engine, there didn’t seem to be any chances of the bus moving in any short while either. With the music player and the book I was reading proving incapable of offering any comfort, I turned to listen to the talks of the people around me. I heard that the traffic in the city was diverted from towards Mount Road to the Beach Road. The cause – people are staging protest against American Government at Mount Road!

Then slowly the information spread across the bus – there was this blasphemous movie produced in the USA, which has shown the Prophet Mohammed in a very bad light. And, all the Muslims are protesting against it. I was just starting to wonder – are we moving in the right direction and are we fighting in the right way!

I don’t remember the exact verse, but having read the Holy Koran out of respect and interest, I can say for sure that there is a verse to this effect, which, when paraphrased, goes like this – “When the ignorant and non-believing people argue, the wise, believing people will not argue with them, but rather they’d say ‘Peace be upon you’ and move ahead with their work”. Now I know that some of the wisest and well-meaning people are fighting against the movie. But what is the point in fighting against the movie when the best way to defeat it would be to ignore it?!

First of all, not many people were aware of the movie in the first place. Thanks to these ‘protests’ and ‘road-blockades’ the word about the movie has spread and the same is all over the news, social networks, calls and every other form of media. More people are now curious to see the movie, which has only resulted in the movie becoming more popular than it ought to have been in the first place.

Second, being a so-called ‘secular’ country, the Indian government has managed to block the access to the movie in Youtube and some other countries in the Asian region have also done the same. But as we all know better, Youtube is only one option to spread videos or content of graphic nature. In this age of fast networks and instant interactions, it is almost impossible to prevent the spreading of any information. The best way to defeat the movie would have been to not speak about it at all, rather than create quite a ruckus over it.

Three, any sane person would agree that the Prophet, as like any other great soul that walked on this Earth, is a person worthy of respect and casting aspersions on such a person is only the work of uncivilized, dirty and immature mind. We’d rather go by ignoring such dimwits, rather than start up arguing with such people at their levels and bring down the respectable Prophet to the level of an ordinary human being in need of explanation and justification. Because, those who stand the middle-ground will never be bothered about who says what about the people they respect and those non-believers are going to see only what they want to!

Four, what are we trying to prove by storming into the offices of the American Embassy?! The sight of gun-wielding policemen, prepared to confront any crowd and standing vigil at the vicinity of the Embassy is sore. Will the Prophet or for that matter even Allah the God Himself will really accept hurting the innocent ones in the name of fighting blasphemy?! If you claim that not all Muslims are terrorists and bad people – I believe strongly that Muslims aren’t terrorists - you have to equally trust that not all Americans are bad and against Islam either. Just because one idiot made a dumb movie doesn’t make the whole of Americans blasphemers.

Already one precious life is lost in these ‘protests’ against the movie. And, the more we indulge in violence like pelting stones and hurting innocent bystanders, we are only adding fuel to the fire. It is a shot in the arm for those detractors to attack the tenets of Islam with a much higher vigor. They can now claim that Islam is more about terrorism and violence than about love and peace. Should we give them a chance for that?!
Just imagine yourself as one of the passengers. You might be a pregnant woman feeling queasy, or an old man that didn’t get any seat in the bus, or a young girl who is suffering from nature’s calls but unable to find a place to go, a guy who is going for office or any urgent time-based commitment. Will you be accepting the cause that is being fought for – no matter how genuine or worthy it might be?! Or will you be feeling angry against the people that are blocking the road and obstructing the traffic?! Trust me, on these occasions, people feel more against the agitators rather than in side with the cause.

My humble opinion is, the movie should have been ignored and let die a silent death, rather than having been given such a huge popularity. All my experiences with the followers of Islam have been pleasant and peaceful. I remember friends who shared food and clothes with the poor voluntarily, people who spoke well and practised against social ills of drinking and smoking, friends who helped the studies of fellow students without expecting anything in return, people who helped those in financial struggle and lent them money without taking any interest, a friend who worked hard in the evenings in beedi workshops to save his poor family and continue his studies but who was high in self-respect that he refused to accept any monetary help from others and a poor old woman who used to sell snacks near my school and made two visits to the Haj with her meager earnings!

When there comes a time to guide my younger generation, I will talk to them only about all those nice friends, the goodness of Islam as a religion, the rights of women as given in Islam, the five noble duties of a Muslim, how Islam is against the social evils of gambling, adultery, adulteration, smoking, drinking, money-lending and so on. I don’t even have time to watch or remember such filthy movies or change my good opinions about Islam over such meaningless rubbish produced by some nondescript moron. Because I have read the Quran and understood the message and also none of the Muslim friends that I was fortunate to have, had ever carried a weapon or bomb in his hands or even at home. All that I had felt with my friends of Islam, or for that matter, friends of any religion, is only love and warmth and a feeling of being with an extended family.

During childhood, I was so scared of dogs. My father used to tell me that I shouldn’t be scared and should not definitely run when they bark. He told me that if I run, they are going to chase me and make it all the more difficult for me. He told me that I should rather ignore them and keep walking without even looking at them. Whenever I come across dogs, I still remember his words. Of course, the dogs still bark, bare their teeth and snarl for a while. But as I move ahead on my path ignoring them completely, they just whine and go back to their lazy and lowly existence.

I wish you people try to understand what I am trying to convey! Islam is a way of life and not just a religion. Prophet Mohammed does not need us to protest and protect his name. He is a great human being for the things that he was able to convey to us. Those who are wise will always know it and there is no way for the not-so-wise to understand his greatness. As Quran says in another place, ‘only people whom Allah has ordained, will be able to understand His messages. He has already sealed the minds of the ignorant and He has raised a curtain around them. They are destined to wallow in ignorance’!

Let us stop stoning every dog that barks at us and let us proceed on the path of positive progress by spreading the good things about Islam. I prefer speaking good things about Islam and thus proving the detractors wrong. Pelting stones and obstructing lives of the innocent people is not Islam. Because Islam for me is about the five sacred duties and the unwavering loyalty to the One God and belief in words of His prophet! Nothing else!

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

பாரதியார் கவிதை - வேண்டுவன

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வேண்டுவன


மனதிலுறுதி வேண்டும்
வாக்கினிலே இனிமை வேண்டும்
நினைவு நல்லது வேண்டும்
நெருங்கின பொருள் கைப்பட வேண்டும்

கனவு மெய்ப்பட வேண்டும்
கைவசமாவது விரைவில் வேண்டும்
தனமு மின்பமும் வேண்டும்
தரணியிலே பெருமை வேண்டும்

கண் திறந்திட வேண்டும்
காரியத்திலுறுதி வேண்டும்
பெண் விடுதலை வேண்டும்
பெரிய கடவுள் காக்க வேண்டும்

மண் பயனுற வேண்டும்
வானகமிங்கு தென்பட வேண்டும்
உண்மை நின்றிட வேண்டும்
ஓம்! ஓம்! ஓம்! ஓம்!

Saturday, September 15, 2012

Excerpt - Messages From The Masters, Brian L.Weiss



Some authors are special, because their words have the ability to jump out of the pages and speak to us directly. The following is an excerpt from the book ‘Messages From The Masters’ by Brian Weiss. Looks like the perfect advice for the current emotional turmoil that I am finding myself in.

// Progress is not always linear. You may be very advanced when it comes to charity and compassion, but more of a novice concerning anger or patience. It is important not to judge yourself. If you don't judge yourself or allow others to judge you, you will not become frustrated. //

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

An excerpt from a letter by Mahatma Gandhi to Nehru!

An excerpt from a letter by Mahatma Gandhi to Jawaharlal Nehru -

"They do not realise that I shall cease to be useful as soon as I cease to be myself. It is a wretched situation, but I do not despair. My faith is in God. I know only the moment's duty. It is given to me to know more. Why then should I worry?"

Friday, September 7, 2012

Book Review - 'The Namesake' by Jhumpa Lahiri

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06th September ‘12

It is hardly minutes since I closed the book for the last time and I am forced to write this down. Seldom has a book given me an empty feeling, a sort of a vacuum, a feeling of strange bereavement, as if I have lost a friend, when I finish reading it. This book left a deep impact within me, making me feel bad that it is over. I was at once feeling happy and sad for having picked this up. This is one of those books that absorb you within and make you feel a part of the story every now and then.

‘The Namesake’ is Jhumpa Lahiri’s first novel and my second tryst with the writing skills of this author. I have never been keen on reading novels, especially those that scare me with the size and soap opera sentiments printed inside them. But, ‘The Namesake’ has been an exception and quite a revelation at that.

As for the story, Ashoke and Ashima are a simple Bengali couple from Calcutta, of the late 1960s, who settle down in the USA, trying to acclimatize and create a world for themselves in the new country and the new continent, all the while struggling to cling on to their roots and keeping their bonds alive across the world, in India. They give birth to a son, who is named ‘Gogol’ under unenviable circumstances, named after his father Ashoke’s favorite author and a writer with whom Ashoke shares an esoteric bond. However, as Gogol grows up he starts hating his name for the combined uniqueness and the rareness of the same. He is not quite comfortable playing the role of an NRI either, since he shares no perceptible emotional bond with the homeland, India, unlike his parents, who have been brought up in the humble, simple, rich traditional surroundings of this country.

Gogol - or Nikhil, as he comes to call himself - grows up as one of those innumerable children of the NRI parents, who don’t feel the need to abide by the traditions and upbringing of their parents’ native country. He is born American and he immerses himself all qualities American – be it good or bad. He grows up as a pot-smoking, drinking teenager with some intimate affairs and saucy relationships in his kitty. He also tries to distance himself from his parents and all the retrograde traditions and mindset of them, as he sees it. But, some unpleasant incidents, one after the other, follow and he slowly learns that a man’s identity is not just in his name and his roots and relationship are what matter the most.

The book begins at the birth of Gogol and makes us leave him at one of the most crucial times of his life. All along the book, Jhumpa succeeds in making you feel as if you are sitting alongside the characters, watching them eat, listening to their conversations, ogling at their sensuality, grieving at their pains and smiling at their happiness. Page after page of emotional journey is mapped out and you feel as if you are a part of Gogol’s life as he moves on from stroller to high-school to higher academics to the life of an adult.

There is a tinge of irony in this book though - I happen to be the ‘Namesake’ of the father’s character and share his interest for reading – especially the Russian authors - while his son reminds me a lot about myself in my past. Be it the love relationship, be it the way he feels about his parents, be it the way he feels suspended between two different cultures, be it the emotional pangs and distress he is subjected too, Gogol reminds me of a person that I was and I am. I couldn’t resist a drop of tear welling up when one of the lead characters ‘departs’. It is only a character in the book that can be brought alive by turning back the pages, but being the kind of author that she is, Jhumpa manages to make you feel as if it is one of your own kin and kith that you have lost!

Jhumpa Lahiri succeeds in making you feel a part of the scenes with her excellent and exceptional portrayal skills. The amount of details that she packs into each page is amazing. But the same can prove to be a little tedious at times too. The elaborate description about the food items, furniture, architecture, travels, restaurants, garments and so on, is sometimes too tiring. Especially, when she explains the preparation of dishes, it sounds as if you are reading a cookbook. This could appeal to people with a desire for culinary skills, but for someone like me, whose culinary skills are unenviable and limited to using a kettle and refrigerator to change the temperature of the water, I find them too tiring.

There are authors with an eye for details. Jhumpa Lahiri is an author with eyes and eyelids, nose and nostrils, ear and earlobes, mouth and teeth for details.
But ignoring the lengthy description of products, prices, cuisines, places, eateries, attires and furniture, this is an amazing book of life and emotions. If you are a person that loves reading books which kindle your emotions and make you delve deep into yourself while sharing the journey of those characters in the plot, this book is for you.

Pick this up! This is one book which you do not want to miss in your life!

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Excerpt from the book ‘The Namesake’. About me?! ;-)

Does it ring a bell to you?! Coz’ it does to me!  ;-)
 
“Not your ordinary guy, Nikolai Gogol,” Mr.Lawson says. “He is celebrated  today as one of Russia’s most brilliant writers. But during his life he was understood by no one, least of all himself. One might say he typified the phrase ‘eccentric genius.’ Gogol’s life, in a nutshell, was a steady decline into madness. The writer Ivan Turgenev described him as an intelligent, queer and sickly creature. He was reputed to be a hypochondriac and a deeply paranoid, frustrated man. He was, in addition, by all accounts, morbidly melancholic, given to fits of severe depression. He had trouble making friends. He never married, fathered no children. It’s commonly believed he died a virgin.”

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